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A Not Mad. Motivated. Store/Story : : : End – of – Inventory Alert

It has been a busy week at Not Mad. Motivated. (NMM) as we recently invested in a WordPress Business Plan. Since the start of NMM in 2018, all of our sells have been made in person. We are now expanding our business to accommodate future customers in more distant regions! As we continue building our online store, we question whether to include one of our three styles of tee shirts, since the style has only seven adult shirts currently available. Instead of excluding these seven shirts from our store, we decided to highlight them in a blog post!

In August of 2017, our son was diagnosed with Autism. Although we had expected the diagnosed, the new certainty had a huge impact. When you think about it, nothing had really changed from one day to the other. However, simultaneously, everything changed! What do we need to know? How do we build our son’s team? What must we do differently to increase our son’s ability to learn and thrive? Will he ever be able to speak? Was his Autism caused by something we did? How do we figure all this out, and more, while balancing a full-time career and two other children? To say the least, there were lots of anxiety that came after his diagnosis. We did not have many answers about the future, but a pause became necessary. And our Not Mad. Motivated. mindset was ignite.

The phrase “Not Mad. Motivated.” was initially inspired by the need to grow from a negative situation. This is not to say that Autism is a negative; instead the negatives were the anxieties and worries that came along with the diagnosis. Thinking forward, we knew that it would be ideal to reduce the need of full-time employment in order to be more flexible for our family’s needs. Before September 2017 was over, the Trademark process to protect the phrase “Not Mad. Motivated.” had been started with the idea of creating a family business that would eventually help supplement us financially.

After our trademark application was submitted, we began to worked on a design to incorporated on our first tee shirts. With a few disappointing attempts for the perfect design, we decided to keep our first shirts simple. Just the words “Not Mad. Motivated.”! We had a few shirts made for the family in 2017, and purchased a larger order in 2018 that were made available to the public. We have seven adults tees left to sell and they are now available at our online store. Although our store is not yet complete, we would like to invite you to view and shop during our soft-opening. We also invite your comments and request for additional sizes and colors.

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Size Small in Maroon (1) ; Size X-Large in Brown (1) and Light Blue (2); Size 3X-Large in Maroon (1), Brown (1), and Royal Blue (1)
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You Inspired . . . A Not Mad. Motivated. Poem

You inspired me to grow

by trying to make me feel small.

You inspired me to know

by acting like you knew it all.

You inspired my voice

by telling me to be silent.

You inspired my choice

by you being violent.

– A Not Mad. Motivated. Poem

This poem is not about accepting [domestic] violence; instead, it is about accepting one’s experience of it. This poem is about realization of strength, determination to thrive, and turning someone’s hateful acts into acts of self love because. . .

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No one deserves to be abused! If you are in an abusive relationship, please find the strength to leave it. It is easier said then done, but you are worth it! If you need help, call your local domestic violence hotline, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for support, resources and advice.

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Autism Awareness and Supporting Community

This Month – September 2018 – Not Mad. Motivated. has set an ambitious goal of selling 100 Not Mad. Motivated. shirts.  I know that reaching this goal will only take place with the support of community.  Most of us have been members of many communities throughout our lives, and there are often elements of support that allows us to successfully move from one stage to another.

My parents and family supported my math and reading interests, which allowed me to be confident when pursuing my education.  My friends and classmates, along with teachers and staff, at Farrell Area Schools (Farrell, PA), Bennett College (Greensboro, NC) and the University of North Carolina (Chapel Hill, NC) provided me an environment to learn how to better “become me” and create lasting memories,  while preparing for the unknown future.

As a parent, I am now creating communities to help build support for my children.  Our Merrick-Moore community is amazing and makes me feel like I am back home in Farrell (minus the Olympics-size swimming pool and the planetarium – yes, my small home town school had both)!  We are new to middle school this year, so we are in the process of building a new and productive community at Neal.

My youngest son has inspired us to become a part if a much larger community.  He was diagnosed with autism, and this community of families encompasses an intersection of all people from all walks of life. Not Mad. Motivated. was, and continues to be, inspired by autism.  We are dedicated to increasing autism awareness, and once we sell our first 15 shirts in the month of September, we will purchase at less two copies of Noah and Logan – Children’s Book Series, written by Benjamin K.M Kellogg.

Mr. Kellogg is an adult with autism and he writes children’s book that focuses on social and life skills.  I am excited to read his stories, which includes “Noah and Logan Learn to Clean”, “Noah and Logan Learn to Share”, “Noah and Logan Learn to Tie Their Sneakers”, “Noah and Logan Learn to Care for Their Pets ”, and “Noah and Logan Learn to Make New Friends ”.  I am even more excited about gifting Mr. Kellogg’s book to my son’s exceptional children’s classroom.

If you are interested in learning more about Mr. Kellogg, go to benjaminkmkellogg.com or kellogthoughts.com.  Thank you, Mr. Kellogg, for using your experiences to help others navigate a path that can be full of challenges.

To purchase your Not Mad. Motivated. shirts, go to notmadmotivated.com or email me at notmadmotivated.@gmail.com.  Thank you for your support!